Profile

Many who know me call me the Energizer Rabbi because they aren’t sure how I do what I do but I keep going and going and going. Others call me Margaret. Still others use my middle name: Joy.

I live with my husband, Simon in Elgin, IL. I am the rabbi of Congregation Kneseth Israel, a congregation that was founded in 1892 but is fiercely independent and modern. Committed to lifelong learning, meaningful observance, creating community and embracing diversity, the congregation enriches our lives as together we welcome everyone to experience the joy that Judaism can bring.

Hallows Press published my book: A Climbing Journey to Yom Kippur: The Thirteen Attributes of the Divine. It is a guided journal to help people prepare for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. I am excited about the 20 voices that are included in the discussion–and the photos that I have taken personally while hiking. The cover photo, for instance, is of Mount Sinai at sunrise when I was 16!

Recently two of my essays were included in Earth Etudes for Elul, a book written and compiled by Rabbi Katy Allen who cares passionately about our need to protect the environment. This is another way to prepare for the Jewish holidays.

Since coming to Elgin, I have joined the Coalition of Elgin Religious Leaders, the 16th Circuit Court Faith Committee on Family Violence, (I now chair the committee) and the U46 Clergy Council. I have returned to running and ran the Disney Princess Half Marathon to raise money for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. I was a Global Justice Fellow for American Jewish World Service and delighted to travel to Guatemala with them, while learning how  to mobilize my congregation here to do Tikkun Olam, repairing the world.

Tikkun Olam, repairing the world or social justice is a very important part of my life. It is not uncommon to find me and my husband working at a soup kitchen on Sunday afternoons or helping to build a Habitat or Humanity home. We have participated in Habitat events in five states and look forward to doing more. Building homes and feeding the hungry is not enough–we need to pursue systemic change and I have been proudly affiliated with such organizations as Merrimack Valley Project which founded on our dining room table. Interfaith Dialogue has been an important part of my own growth and development and it comes out of my commitment to not allow another Holocaust and to fulfill the commandment, to seek peace and pursue it. It is not enough to sit idly by. There is so much more that unites us than divides  . I have learned so much teaching non-Jews and sharpened my own understanding in the process. Some of those relationships have led deep ties and even deeper, lifelong friendships.

I have been honored for my work here in Elgin with the Partner in Peace Award from the Community Crisis Center, the Martin Luther King, Humanitarian Award from the City of Elgin and the Betty Brown Racial Justice Award from the YWCA Leader Luncheon. Taking what I have learned, I recently was named the Hollander Social Justice Fellow for the National Havurah Institute where I taught Building Bridges: You are Not Alone, about how we are stronger doing social justice work together than working in our own silos. I also taught at NewCAJE on how to teach Jewish texts in a politically diverse world.

Together with my husband,  we are creating a uniquely Jewish home together. We moved from Chelmsford, MA where we  had enjoyed cooking, reading, hiking, kayaking, visiting National Parks and watching University of Michigan football. Together we have a daughter who graduated from Hofstra University on Long Island and will be producing her first play this year.I have three step-adults and we try to celebrate as many holidays and life cycle events together as possible considering they are spread out from Massachusetts to Virginia and California.

It wasn’t always this way. As a young child, my family did not belong to a synagogue. My parents couldn’t find one they agreed on. However, we celebrated all the Jewish holidays (and all the secular ones too!). One of my first memories is learning to sing Dayenu. In New York I attended Temple Emanuel Nursery School on 5th Avenue and loved going to the children’s zoo in Central Park and playing in the rooftop playground. In Evanston they were instrumental in The North Shore School of Jewish Studies, a Sunday morning program run by the faculty of Northwestern to teach Jewish history, culture, ethics but not Hebrew or religion. In Grand Rapids, we joined Temple Emanuel where I celebrated my Bat Mitzvah and Confirmation, sang in the adult choir and was an officer in the youth group. I was also very active in Girl Scouts in both Evanston and Grand Rapids, earning my First Class award. In college it seemed natural that I would become involved in Hillel and joined my first weekend at Tufts. There were so many interesting Jewish programs to attend in Boston that I enjoyed exploring almost to the detriment of my grades. Attending Simchat Torah services was a life changing moment. I saw the joy that the Hillel rabbis brought to the bima that night and I said, “I want to be a part of that”. I spent junior year in Israel on a Brandeis program and studying in a yeshiva.

Since college I have earned a Masters in Education at Tufts and in Jewish Studies at Hebrew College. I was ordained  a rabbi at the Academy for Jewish Religion in New York on May 13 of 2010.

I have served as a Jewish Educator at Temple Emanuel of the Merrimack Valley, the Manchester Jewish Community School and Congregation Tifereth Israel. I have worked at the Heritage, a Jewish assisted living community, Refugee Immigration Ministry, and Congregation Shalom as their rabbinic interns. I was the Answer Rabbi for the Jewish Appleseed Foundation. I was privileged to be the rabbi for Yom Kippur in Hameln(Germany) and it was a powerful experience.

I have been mikveh guide and educator at Mayyim Hayyim, the community mikveh in Newton, MA. I try to emulate their approach to making every Jew feel welcomed and supported and where they intentionally strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space for marking life transitions. I have learned so much because of my affiliation with Mayyim Hayyim. I was a Girl Scout leader and trainer through college until my daughter’s senior year of high school and loved sharing my love of nature and camping with girls.

Like the rabbis of old, I have had a trade in addition to being a rabbi. While pursuing my graduate degrees I have worked in the technology industry in sales, marketing and strategy roles. Now, I continue to build my consulting practice while serving the Jewish people.

9 thoughts on “Profile

  1. Dear Rabbi Margaret,
    Thank you again for a wonderful morning. The girls were chattering non-stop on the way back to school about how much they had enjoyed our time with you. I have a couple of pictures to send you (the closer one of you has your eyes closed, unfortunately), but I’m not sure how to do it–can I do it via your blog?

    In addition to being closer to a Torah than I have been since high school (I graduated in ’83…you were being extremely generous this morning), I was very excited to finally understand why my girlhood friend was not allowed to flip a light switch on the Sabbath: it’s like creating a spark for a cooking fire or finishing pounding in a nail (which creates something?). Growing up I was so preoccupied with asking her about the “what” that I never asked her “why?” I’m still grinning about that aha! moment.

    Please let me know how I can send you the pictures. I wish I had taken more, but I was so caught up in the experience that it didn’t really cross my mind until it was almost time to go. Maybe another time!

  2. 1. Got here via Googling “North Shore School of Jewish Studies” which has a low online profile – a link to an article in the Sentinel in 1949 and this page.
    2. This is not a very active web page, but you knew that.
    3. bye bye, back next year, but you probably know that too.
    4. If we are referring to the same “North Shore School of Jewish Studies” then it is interesting how the story has changed. It was started by left wingers, many of them Communist party folks (some sent their kids to a Yiddishe shule, others to NSSJS, others to ??)

  3. Dear Rabbi Margaret Joy FRISCH,
    I’m trying to get in touch with you again, my attempt a few weeks ago was unsuccessful:
    I’m researching the Jewish history of Kerzenheim in Rhineland-Palatinate/Germany. For the time from 1870 I was able to publish a small documentation.
    But I would also like to research the earlier history of the Jewish residents of Kerzenheim.
    In the first half of the 19th century there were also the names KLEIN and MANDEL. If the genograms in various Internet genealogy databases are correct, the ancestors of your husband, Simon Louis KLEIN, came from the Palatinate family with the parents Johann Faber MANDEL (1815-1853) and Caroline KLEIN (1805-1894).
    I would like to have contact with your husband and would like to ask him about the history of his family; but also would like to tell him something.
    Would it be possible to get in touch with your husband?
    If you could help me with this I would be very grateful!
    I greet you warmly over the sea from the Palatinate

    Michael Wiesheu

    My address:
    Michael Wiesheu
    Moltkestrasse 45
    67655 Kaiserslautern
    michael.wiesheu@gmx.net

    • I shared this with my husband. He’s not so good at correspondance. I will share it with the rest of his siblings. Let’s see where we get. He is fascinated by geneology. All the brothers have been to Kerzenheim. I once.

  4. Dear Rabbi Margaret Joy FRISCH,
    I was just back on your page for the first time and saw that I had received an answer from you a long time ago! Thanks a lot for this!
    I’m surprised that you, your husband and his brothers were in Kerzenheim! Did you find any ancestors during the visit and were you able to visit them?

    Mr. Frederick S. Klein emailed me a very friendly letter about 2 weeks ago and also attached a duplicate of Simon Klein.
    I answered him and included some information about the Jewish history of Kerzenheim and asked if I could ask him and his brother questions about family history. I didn’t get a reply and I’m worried my two emails didn’t reach him! Can you ask him if he got it and if I can talk further?
    That would be very nice of you!
    I greet you across the sea from the Palatinate
    Heartfelt
    Michael Wiesheu michael.wiesheu@gmx.net

    • Hi Michael, I saw the correspondence that Frederick Klein sent to you. As you know doubt realize by now, we are not such good correspondents. However the current plan is to attend a wedding soon of one of their nieces. I will try to probe further when I see some people in person. To answer your question, while we did find some Klein graves in the friedhof, (wonderfully taken care of, BTW), we did not find any relatives. Most Jews had left kerzenheim well before WWII. I believe that my husband told me only 4 returned. I do have a story about the bakery we visited and challah.

  5. Dear Rabbi Margaret Joy FRESH,
    thanks for the quick reply! I am interested in what you write about Kerzenheim and the 4 returnees and I would like to know more about it.
    The Jewish cemetery is in the neighboring town of Göllheim. Did you visit this place? Are there still graves of the Klein family there (maybe I couldn’t find them because their dates are in Hebrew script?)?
    May I get the history of the Kerzenheim bakery?
    Perhaps the relatives you will meet at the wedding still know something. You are welcome to pass on my address.
    By the way, I had sent 2 emails to Mr. Frederick Klein (on May 10th and 17th) and had attached the Jewish history of Kerzenheim (1870 – 1946) that I had researched.
    May I email you my questions about the Klein/Mandel family history so that you can pass them on to family members?
    I hope I’m not bothering you too much with my concerns!
    But your husband and his relatives are direct descendants and represent a piece of the forgotten history of my birthplace of Kerzenheim!

    I thank you and greet you warmly from the Palatinate
    Michael Wiesheu
    michael.wiesheu@gmx.net

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